I just recently watched a video where legendary atheist and scientific skeptic Sam Harris spoke about whether or not science can answer moral questions. Questions also regarding human well-being. Now I suggest that you do indeed go and watch the video as it is an excellent talk and will give you a lot to think about.

Now, it gave me a lot to think about as well after I watched it. Not because of the somewhat new idea that morals could be answered by science or that faith-based morals weren’t the only way for our moral compasses to be guided, but because it was something that I had thought about for as long as I can remember now. When it comes down to it, to simplify it if you will, there is a simple case of right and wrong for us all. And when I say us all, I do not mean us all individually, I mean us all in the greater good of us all. Take for example torturing someone because they are your enemy or because they did something wrong or just because you can. Now it is an easy case for anyone at all with any kind of compassion, empathy and even feelings of pity that says such acts are wrong and should never be carried out. Inflicting pain and suffering upon another person does not in any way fix any problem nor does it help to bring about a solution that isn’t soiled in a background filled with negativity and violence. It is hardly a case for a means to an end. Even if the end is the saving of lives, the means do not justify the ends. Why? Well because it would be hypocritical of us to say on one hand “lets beat the answers out of him” to then on the other hands say “sorry about bruises and the blood, but at least we saved the girl”.

Now some might think well, surely it is ok to do what you have to do in order to get a result that benefits everyone. But everyone minus one person isn’t everyone. We need to as a species learn to know what is right and wrong. We need to know what things in life, what decisions we make will result in a benefit for all concerned and not just for a few and lets forget the rest.

An example of this is simple manners. Saying please and thank you are amongst the easiest and most notable traits of a good person. They are, or at least should be drilled into us as young toddlers and throughout our childhood into adolescence and right throughout our adulthood to the point where they become so common and automatic that we no longer think about them. We just say them as part of our everyday lives. Like breathing and eating and sleeping. So why is it then that we do not give simple answers to moral questions. Why do we not know what really is right and wrong. As Sam Harris explained there are varying answers to what is right and what is wrong. His example of what are good foods to eat was a good one. Yes we know apples are good for you, but they are not the only good food for you. However it doesn’t take a genius to know that fried chips with half a bottle of your favourite sauce, really isn’t good for you. These are simple facts and they can be proven by science.

So the same goes for moral and ethical questions with regards to the well-being of our societies as a whole. In order for us to succeed and flourish as Sam might put it we need to answer these questions more definitively.

I have always said that I have what I call a base set of morals and ethics in which I view the world. Same Harris has finally put up an explanation for it. There simply are good things and there are bad things in this world and we ought to know what they are by now. Yet somehow we seem to want to waste so much precious time on things like revenge and hate and fear that we are constantly handicapping out own moral evolution to the point that we are becoming stagnant.

So the next time you are having a fight with a loved one, or speeding down the street in a busy area of town or perhaps voting for a politician who is giving you a tax cut but is against stem cell research, think long and hard to yourself and work out if really that fight is going to get you anywhere other than upset or that the speed you are travelling at won’t instantly kill some innocent bystander if lose control or that the stem cell research that you voted against didn’t get to cure certain cancers and wonder if really there ought to be a simple right way of doing things.

There is a right way to life and a wrong way to life. The right way is the way in which all involved have an outcome that is positive to them and they bear no guilt for it. Can this be done, I believe it can, but can you?

And I am still on it. I do often wonder if real happiness isn’t about what I have or who I have but more about how I perceive the world so that all that looks dark and menacing, all that feels like it could break you into two, all those that would think to cause you pain and suffering, all that is just plain bad in this world, is actually seen with rose-coloured glasses as being ok. Am I meant to be happy just because? Am I meant perhaps to ignore the bad things in the world that happen to us and find myself in some ever lasting blissful ignorance?

I do have to ask how this is possible? I mean how can one such as myself, one whom I regard as a skeptical thinker, a wise cynic, able to just live in blissful ignorance? Sure the realities to such as myself and those like me, weight heavily upon my very being in a way that in inescapable?

So then, where does this leave me? Trying to escape a reality that I know is harsh and sometimes really uninviting yet at the same time I embrace all its beauty in the same breath as all its maddening darkness. Where do you draw the line?

Depression is like this at times. You never quite know which way to look next. All the more amplified if something goes wrong in your life. If something is added to the mix that just distorts your reality to a point where nothing makes much sense anymore. How do you clear the tracks to the point where you can hear the beat of your heart again and feel alive once more?

I am not sure I have answers for these questions and many more like them. I think sometimes you need to just look on the bright side of life. Easier said than done some would say. However looking is free for all to do, even the blind. It is a state of mind. The mind being a rather powerful tool in your life, more powerful than anything on this planet is capable of producing, often we neglect to use its power. Positive thought processes help us move forward, help us heal even. Healing of the soul is merely a healing of the mind. A hard thing to do if your mind is so mixed up that it has a hard time recognising the good in life, but it is doable. Anything is possible right?

The long road to happiness is just that, a long road, but luckily for us we have two abilities that hold us high above most other species on the planet and they are the ability to make new friends and the ability to remember good times. Just have to remember the good times over the bad. Don’t ever forget the bad though, as they are a way for us to move forward without making the same mistakes. Use them wisely for they are the guiding lights on the path before us, a path so full of treachery, deception, lies and abusive world of the emotions of the mind, that we need these experiences in order to end up finding exactly what it is that we need. In order for us to be happy or at least content within our short lives.

The End.

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